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I know of one First Child who had very high expectations created for her early in her life. She had to help her dysfunctional mother raise the other four children. She became bossy and earned their dislike, but her mother was happy. The young girl had become a Caregiver and it took her quite a bit of therapy work to shake off that role because, naturally, she carried it into her marriage.
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