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By Nancy Daniels The Official Guide to Public Speaking
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Next time you hear your voice on recording equipment,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], listen closely and ask yourself if what you hear does justice to the rest of the image you are projecting.
Recently, I had a client who was working on improving his speaking voice. When he first phoned me,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I heard a voice that was nasal and relatively high-pitched for a man. When he later sent me a photo, I was dumb-founded because the picture showed a handsome,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], well-built tall man in his 40’s. The voice I heard when he first called me, however,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], led me to believe that he was a wimpy little man in his early 20’s.
In the case of my client, the change he made in his voice is so dramatic,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], that when he phoned me after finding his ‘real’ voice, I did not recognize him. Today his voice definitely does justice to his visual image.
In truth, I wish I looked like I was still in my early 20’s but I don’t want to sound that young. Nor do I want to sound old. What is fascinating about good voice training is that your ‘real’ voice is ageless. My voice does not give away my age. In addition, it doesn’t age me either. When I am 85 years old, I may look like it but I will never sound old. If you haven’t seen my photo and were to phone me,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you would not be able to place an age on me. I could be 25 or 65. The reason is because I’ve taken the pressure off my vocal folds (cords) and am using my chest to power my sound. The result is a voice that is deeper,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], richer, warmer, and resonant.
Have you ever considered whether your speaking voice does justice to the visual image you project? Or whether the content of what you are saying is being well-served by the sound of your speaking voice? When you answer these questions, bear in mind that I am talking about the voice you hear on your answering machine or voicemail – not the voice you hear in your head. (What you hear on your voicemail is the sound by which everyone else recognizes you.)
If you voice is high-pitched and squeaky or shrill, or nasal and strident, or child-like in quality,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the image your voice is projecting certainly doesn’t justify your visual image or the content of what you are saying.
When someone looks at you, your visual image is obviously the first thing they see. And,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], that image has an impact on the other person – your attire,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], your figure, your face,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], your hair – everything that is presenting the picture of you. But what happens when you open your mouth to speak?
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Consider who/what you are working towards very carefully. Sometimes the best way to figure out what we do want is through a serious examination of what it is that we do not want! Write out lists, pros and cons etc.
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